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Hidden Struggle of High Achievers

Let’s keep it real for a minute

You ever walk into a room, onto a stage, or into a new role and think…

“What am I even doing here?”
“Who let me in?”
“They’re gonna find out I don’t belong.”

You know what that’s called?

Imposter syndrome.

And it’s more common than you think.

I’ve seen it in clients.
I’ve felt it myself.

In fact, the more accomplished you are, the louder that voice can get.
(Yeah, ironic right?)

It whispers that you’re a fluke. That your wins don’t count. That you’re just “lucky.”

But here’s the truth:
Feeling like an imposter doesn’t mean you are one.
It just means you’re growing.

So what do we do about it?

I’m not gonna lie to you and say imposter syndrome disappears forever. I don’t think it ever really does.

BUT… it can be managed.

Here’s how I coach people through it:

✅ Reframe your mindset.
Not “I don’t belong,” but “I’m learning and evolving.”
Big difference.

✅ Celebrate your wins.
Even the small ones.
Especially the small ones. This is something I’m CONSTANTLY working on.

✅ Talk to your people.
Community kills shame.
The moment you speak it out loud, it loses its power.

You’re not alone.
You’re not a fraud.
You’re just human—with goals, doubts, and a story worth telling.

And if you want to hear me go deeper on this check out this week’s podcast episode.

We’re not faking it till we make it—we’re facing it till we grow through it.

Let’s keep being incredible and click the button below or the YouTube link to check out this week’s episode.

P.S. If imposter syndrome is hitting hard and you want support navigating it, reply to this email or if you’re viewing online email me at [email protected]

MORE DETAILS ABOUT EPISODE

In this episode, Paul Faronbi discusses the pervasive issue of imposter syndrome, exploring its impact on individuals, particularly high achievers. He shares personal anecdotes and stories to illustrate how common these feelings are and emphasizes the importance of recognizing and addressing them. Paul offers practical strategies for combating imposter syndrome, including reframing one's mindset, celebrating successes, and seeking support from others. The conversation highlights that while imposter syndrome may never fully disappear, it can be managed effectively through self-awareness and intentional actions.

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KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM EPISODE

• Imposter syndrome affects majority of people.

• It can be both crippling and empowering.

• Recognizing feelings of inadequacy is the first step.

• Look at the facts to combat negative thoughts.

• You are interviewing the company as much as they are you.

• High achievers often experience imposter syndrome.

• Celebrate your wins to counter self-doubt.

• Acknowledge and name your imposter syndrome.

• Seek support from friends and colleagues.

• Self-awareness is key to overcoming imposter syndrome.

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